An Evolution Unfolding
A warmhearted melancholy washes over me as I stare out the window. Eighteen years ago I returned to the neighborhood of my childhood to begin a new chapter of my life. Today I taste the bittersweetness of my life as I sip a cup of dark roast in the newest cool coffee shop. I’m surrounded by tall ceilings, brick walls and laptops as I admire the view from the window.
I’m in Little Bohemia on South 13th Street. It was once the heart of the Czech immigrants neighborhood. My family made its home next door in Little Italy when I was a child. I joke that we got in under the poverty guidelines rather than our German heritage. St. Frances Cabrini, site of more than one sacrament for me, is just up the hill.
I look out at what was once Emil Cermak’s apothecary built in 1898. Emil spoke multiple languages so he served not only the Italians and Czechs but also the Polish and German. When my late husband and I bought what we now call the Koenig Building, it was filled to the rafters with thrift store finds sold under the guise of antiques. It had deteriorated dreadfully from decades of neglect. Many questioned the sanity of the acquisition.
I notice the details of my view. Century old architectural details. Charming black awnings on the Dunne Building named for my law partner. Today both buildings are gems of Little Bohemia and transformations like ours are happening all around us.
The Bohemian Café closed after decades. People from around the country planned their family vacations around a return for one last oval plate brimming with dumplings buried in gravy and sweet and sour cabbage. During the restaurant’s final month I donned my apron and my sturdiest shoes to bus tables with them for a night, just to savor some final hours of history in the hood.
Next the Donut Stop closed. It was been a landmark on this street since my childhood. Each morning the same half dozen men gathered to drink the coffee they poured themselves into small plastic cups held by brown plastic holders.
The cat lady’s Mystery Bookstore has been replaced with a design studio and a hipster men’s clothing shop. A long abandoned warehouse now houses a nonprofit for working artists. Colorful murals sprouting up on the sides of buildings. New trees are getting grounded.
It’s more than a half century since my arrival here. So much and so many are now gone, including my father, my brother, my mother, my husband. I stare out at the brick building that is home for both my business and me. I’m lost in my reverie when I’m interrupted by and enthusiastic hello from a mustached millennial whose just moved into the neighborhood.
There are changes happening here. Some bitter. Some sweet. An evolution unfolding.
What changes are happening around you?
What can you appreciate about the old and the new?
What might be transformed in your life?
Susan Ann Koenig is an attorney turned life coach, speaker, and writer. She remains of counsel at the Koenig|Dunne law firm she founded. Susan will be one of our featured speakers at the 2019 Women’s Midlife Reinvention Conference hosted by Your Second Season.